Long distance relationships have an extremely low chance of succeeding. You should avoid the heartache for both of you by sticking to the single female population within a two-hour drive of your place. This only makes sense. If things do start to heat up, how can you be part of her daily or even weekly life if you live 400 miles away? Phone, fax and e-mail are not sufficient. You have to be there on a very regular basis. Choose local single women or relocate.