Single women have a much higher level of sexuality and sensuality than men do, and love opportunities to express it. One only need observe a dance floor to confirm this. The men are usually very conservative, bobbing back and forth, while the women are very expressive with their bodies, making exaggerated moves - not afraid to offer sexual connotation to their dancing.
The important thing here is that single women love an opportunity to express their sensuality, and are attracted to a man who offers that opportunity. Be it because he is a good dancer, or is into yoga and massage, or is a photographer looking for a model, a woman is drawn to a man that is comfortable with sensuality.
Now this does not mean that you'll have to go out and become an Elvis Presley clone to attract single women. There are many subtle ways a man can add an element of sensuality to his personality. In later chapters we will give you ideas on how this can be done.
To be more correct, single women don't want sex - they want good sex. Women's sexual desires are much greater than most men realize. But, unlike men, who are just after sex, single women are looking for great sexual experiences. Single women are very discriminating and choosy in picking partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that 1) sexually arouses them and 2) promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed."
Single women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special.
The fact that single women are choosy about who they go to bed with is a dilemma for men, but there is one good aspect to this trait. Single women, once they do choose, tend to stay with him, and are reluctant to change partners. Women know that good sex is hard to find, so once they have it, they would rather hang on to that relationship than go back out into the market place. Keep in mind this propensity to stay in a relationship because of sex exists only as long as the sex is good.
The last thought in this section is something that we have come to realize is a cardinal rule to be used in reading single women. That is: SINGLE WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHO THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH. At first, this phrase may sound too simple and obvious to have any wisdom to it, but let us expand on it. The meaning behind it is, that if a woman decides that she would like to sleep with someone, she will pursue that person relentlessly.
And on the other hand, if a single woman has decided that she is not interested in sleeping with someone, no amount of pursuit or persuasion is going to move her. Many men have wasted their precious time and energy by ignoring this reality. We will discuss different applications of this rule in later chapters. We will show you how you can read single women well enough to know whether or not to continue interest in her, or to bow out and put your energies into women where the odds are greater.
