Do you sometimes have a hard time understanding women? How they act and how they think? Does it sometimes seem like they are from another planet?

Well, let me give you some advice to help you out in understanding women and people in general.

The first mistake you're making is expecting her to think like you and be like you. You expect her to see the world as you do. This is a big mistake! She will never be like you or think like you. She will not be a clone of you.

We are all unique individuals and not alike. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all-alike and thought alike. We all have different opinions of things and see the world differently based upon our upbringing, experiences, knowledge, etc.

And don't make the mistake of trying to change a woman that you are dating into someone like yourself. Sorry, it just won't happen. Accept her unconditionally with her faults and all.

People are resistant to change and if you're constantly trying to change her, you are just going to end up alienating her.

So in closing, remember this: Any woman you meet will not exactly think like you and be like you. If you can accept this statement it will go a long way in helping you to understand women and people in general.

P.S. I'm sure that you've heard the old saying that opposites attract. Well, I don't agree with this. If you don't have a lot in common, I think that this hurts a relationship. You need to share common interests and if you disagree on everything, all this does is create friction and is detrimental to creating a loving, harmonious, and long term relationship.

If you have ever been in a relationship in which you have nothing in common, I sure you can relate to this. All you do is fight and disagree all the time. It's just not worth it and this sure is no way to be happy. Don't you agree? Things go so much smoother when you are compatible.

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Welcome to The Don Diebel "Succeed With Women" Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.

We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."

Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com

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This week I want to discuss the sensitive subject of balding. I know a lot of you guy's freak out when you start losing your hair. So, what can you do about it? What I recommend is that you bald gracefully. And, you'd be surprised how many single women are turned on by bald men.

I'm going to give you some tips to make you more attractive to single women if you are balding:

If you have just a few strands of hair on top, don't comb them over to the side or forward. This looks silly! Just go ahead and shave your head on top. It will look much, much better.

If you are bald on top, don't wear your hair thick on the sides. Just wear your hair real short and trimmed on the sides. It will look much, much better and give you that clean-cut look that single women like.

Consider growing a mustache or goatee to draw attention to your face rather than your head where you are bald or balding.

You know, a lot of guys are shaving their heads and going completely bald. This style is in and lots of women like it. Shave your head as an experiment and wear it around women and ask them how you look. Some men really look sexy when completely bald.

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Being that the election for President is just around the corner, here's a good ice-breaker: "Who are you going to vote for President?"

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For example, has this ever happened to you? You meet this really hot & sexy single girl at a nightclub and the sexual chemistry between you is incredible. While slow-dancing you are rubbing each others back, grinding your crotches, kissing each others neck, kissing, etc. I'm sure you're getting the picture. It's getting late and you invite her over to your place for a drink.

Then after she comes over you sit on the couch and start making out. Things really start to get hot and heavy. You start to undress her and she reluctantly pulls back and says, "not tonight." This really frustrates you after getting all worked up and you're totally confused about what's going on here. You're wondering why she seemed ready to make love but got cold feet.

Before you jump to conclusions and consider her a prude or a prick-teaser, these are the most likely reasons why she chickened out:

Mother Nature has made her monthly call and she's on her period.

She is concerned that if she has sex with you so soon in the relationship you will think she is nothing but a promiscuous cheap whore and you won't see her again.

She is concerned that she might get pregnant or even worse, contract a sexual disease.

She only has sex with someone that she is in love with and being that you have just met she has not had time to get to know you and feel love for you.

When she has had casual sex in the past she feels empty and ashamed of herself the next morning. So, she feels uncomfortable repeated the same empty and unfulfilling experience.

So, what is the lesson to be learned from this? First of all, men and women are different when it comes to hoping in bed with someone. Men will go to bed with women at the drop of a hat, even if they have only known each other a couple of hours. Women are different. Most of them aren't into casual sex. They want to get to know you and develop feelings for you before they give their body to you.

So, my advice is to take things slow with a single woman. Take time for you to get to know each other and develop chemistry, communication, and feelings for each other. You really don't even have to rush sex. If sex is going to happen, it's going to happen naturally anyway. Believe me, the woman will really respect you and admire you for not rushing her into a sexual relationship. Plus, you will really make a favorable impression on her because you're different than the other men she's used to who come on all hot and horny acting like a dog in heat.

In conclusion, if a woman continues to reject your advances, be sure and have a heart to heart talk with her about you are not getting your needs met in the relationship. If she refuses to compromise, then it's a simple choice. Live with it or move on someone who can meet your physical needs.

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