This week I would like to share my secrets on taking action to approach single women that you are interested in meeting and getting to know on an intimate basis.
I'm sure this has probably happened to you. You see a gorgeous woman that you'd give anything to meet and get to know. All you've got to do is approach her and introduce yourself. But, something holds you back. You procrastinate and put it off. Then, before you know it, she disappears and you've lost your opportunity to meet her because you didn't act fast enough.
There's a good solution to this problem of not taking action if you will do what I did to overcome procrastination when it came to approaching single women immediately that I was attracted to. Follow these steps and you will be much more successful with women:
The secret to getting things done is taking action. And you need to take action immediately when you see an opportunity to meet women that you are attracted to. You must not stall, ponder, and worry about if she will accept your advances. You've got to approach her then and there or you may have lost a golden opportunity to make your wildest dreams come true.
And to motivate yourself to take action you need to ingrain in your subconscious mind these three words, DO IT NOW! You need to program your subconscious mind to react to these words that you repeat to yourself which will direct your conscious mind to take action to meet women.
Repeat in your mind, DO IT NOW! And then follow up by approaching women immediately! With practice, you will develop the habit of approaching women right on the spot without hesitation. But, I must warn you that you've got to back up these words when you say, DO IT NOW! You've got to do it! If you don't, these words will be meaningless.
Trust me guys, this system works. Memorize these words, DO IT NOW! They can do wonders for your love life. Once you train you mind to approach women immediately after saying to yourself, DO IT NOW!, meeting single women will be so much easier.
It will become automatic. No more mulling over and over in your mind if you should approach that hot & sexy beautiful woman that you are attracted to. You just take action and do it after you say to yourself, DO IT NOW!
In closing, I would highly recommend that you write in big bold letters on the back of a business card, DO IT NOW! Put these cards where you will see them daily. Put one on your desk, tape one to your bathroom mirror, put one on your nightstand, tape one to your car visor or middle of your steering wheel, etc.
By seeing these three words constantly you can connect them in your mind to taking immediate action to approach and meet single women. Also, I recommend that when you see these three words that you visualize yourself approaching and meeting women.
Ok, the rest if up to you. I've given you a great system to get you up off your ass to take action to approach and meet single women. Try this system and I'd love to hear about your success stories after using the DO IT NOW! System.
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Welcome to The Don Diebel "Succeed With Women" Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.
We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com
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4) Pick-Up Line of the Week
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Nobody likes a whiner and complainer. So, when on a date avoid the tendency to bitch and moan about how the world is treating you unfairly. Hold your tongue about how you were mistreated by your ex-girlfriend or wife. Trust me, one of the best ways to ensure that you don't get a second date with a woman you're trying to impress, is to bitch and gripe about everything while on your first date.
When on a date with single women your best strategy is to be upbeat and positive. You'll make a much better impression on her this way instead of acting negative.
Now let's talk about the second thing you must try to avoid when on a date. That is arguing. Some people just by their nature, want to argue and disagree about everything. Don't do it guys! This will turn your date off and I'll explain why.
When you are arguing with a woman you're on a date with you are in a sense telling her that her opinions, thoughts, ideas, and things that she's learned in a lifetime don't make a damn bit of sense and she's totally wrong. Believe me, people don't like to be told they are wrong. This puts them in a defensive mode and they will resent you and make them angry.
So, do you want your date pissed off at you? If you consistently insult her intelligence and disagree with her, do you really think that she's going to want to see you again and expose herself to being mistreated and disrespected again? I think not!
Avoid arguing if at all possible while on a date. If she is obviously wrong about something and you can't bite your tongue, then create a third party to do your arguing for you. How do you do this? Let me explain:
Make a comment that such and such said (another person, what you heard on the radio or TV, what you read in a magazine, newspaper, or book, etc.). I think you get the picture here. She won't be arguing with you directly, she will be disagreeing with a third party and in this way it let's you off the hook.
This is kind of a sneaky way of arguing, but it works! Try it.
In closing, if you're the type of guy who enjoys arguing and trying to
prove people wrong about everything they say just to boost your own
ego, you will become a very unpopular person. People will go out of
their way to avoid you and this unfortunately includes the women that
you date.
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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Try this line to meet sales clerk in malls and department stores:
"What time do you get off? Would you like to meet for dinner?"
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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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An unfortunate reality is that women usually have to be more worried
about this than men. A lot of women may be very skittish about
meeting a man. Sometimes, a woman will initially be excited about the
romantic nature of an email relationship, but then will get spooked
when the reality hits that she actually has to meet this guy in
person.
The tips I have for men are as follows:
#3 is a particularly interesting one, and is an option not many people think of. What better way of assuring a woman that you're okay than to have her talk to women who know you? Ask several women you know (at least two I would think) if they will be willing to serve as personal references for you. You'll probably be surprised at how many women will be delighted at the prospect of checking references on you. The very fact that you're willing to offer up this kind of reference to a woman will also tell her you're a gentleman.
(By the way, don't be a dork about this. Don't post your references publicly, and go handing them to just anyone who writes you. Offer them only to women you've been talking to for a while who you've decided you'd really like to meet, and be sure that the people you use as references are actually willing to act in this capacity for you.)
By the way, it's not a bad idea for women to offer references to a man either. How does a man know a woman's not a psycho, or that she's not actually a man pretending to be a woman? References are one of the very best ways to assure someone that you're for real.
For everyone: chances are very good that nothing worse than disappointment will ever happen to you as a result of using personal ads, so don't get paranoid. Just remember everything in life carries risk; the healthy way to react to risk is with common sense and reasonable precautions, not paranoia.
This article is reprinted by permission and is Copyright 1995 and 1996
by Dean Esmay.
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