This week I want to focus on your own personal methods of meeting and attracting single women for love and romance.
I know it's a jungle out there in the dating world and at times you just feel like giving up on the dating game. Sometimes your fear of failure holds you back and you don't do a damn thing to improve your love life.
If you're in a dating rut, let me suggest some ways to get you back on track and get the love and romance in your life that you deserve:
1. The most important thing you can do is to force yourself to take action and follow through on meeting and approaching women.
2. It's very important to monitor your results and progress. Keep track of what methods you are using to meet new women and notice if they are working or not. I would suggest keeping a journal and put it in writing.
3. Whatever you do, don't feel sorry for yourself if what you're doing is not working. Don't give up hope and drop out of the dating game.
4. My last suggestion is the most important of all. If what you're doing to meet single women and find romance is not working, try something else. And if that doesn't work, Don, what do I do? Try something else! You just keep trying until you finally succeed. And trust me guys, if you're persistent and take action, backed with faith and belief, you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams. Guaranteed!
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Welcome to The Don Diebel "Succeed With Women" Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.
We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com
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4) Pick-Up Line of the Week
5) Article from our "Dating Tips of the Week Archive" on how to score with women.
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I'm sure that you are aware of how you act when you're around your buddies. You tend to joke around with each other, tease each other with insulting comments that are meant to be humorous, get involved in horseplay, etc. This is all done in fun and not meant to offend anyone. It's just a guy thing.
It's ok to act this way when you're around your buddies, but don't do it when you're on a date. One surefire way to ruin a potential relationship is to treat her like one of the guys. Don't do it!
When you tease, poke fun at, degrade, make offensive remarks all in fun at your date guess what happens? If she's the sensitive type, she will get very offended. You may think this behavior is no big deal because you're used to acting this way around your buddies, but trust me guys, she won't appreciate it and hold it against you.
You see, while you're making all these meant to be funny comments, she is keeping score. And the score is not in you favor my friend. She will remember all your teasing and insults and take it personally.
In closing, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to not treat single women you date like one of the guys. You will just end up hurting her feelings.
Does this instead: Make her feel good about herself and be as romantic and affectionate towards her as possible. You will have much, much more success with single women if you will take this approach.
P.S. Also, don't treat your date like one of the guys when you're on a double date. This makes matters much worse because you will be offending her in front of others and this will really alienate her. Plus, the other girl won't appreciate it either.
And when they go to the restroom together they may make comments to
each other about what a creep you are. By being labeled a creep, this
sure isn't going to help you get a second date. Wouldn't you agree?
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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This is a good one to use around this time of the year: "What's Santa
Claus bringing you for Christmas this year? Have you been naughty or
nice this year?"
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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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You have been dating a nice woman, and the two of you seem to feel at ease with each other and enjoy being together. It feels right being with her, but you have yet to touch, to hold hands, to exchange more than a hug and a nominal kiss or two. Where do you go from here?
1. Talk. Set up lines of communication. Establish rapport.
2. Share your past, your pain and disappointments as well as your triumphs and joys.
3. Laugh together, cry together. Humor is healing, and tears are sacred.
4. Slowly and reverently peel back the layers of mystery in each other.
Every revealed nuance, every secret desire, every confession of
weakness, every exploration of hope and admission of paralyzing fear
strengthens the bond between the two of you, helps you accept the
other as a human being, flawed but worthy of acceptance as a trusted
and intimate companion.
Share interests, activities, and hobbies:
Establish the 'rules of engagement', the ground rules for arguing. There is a line you may not cross without causing permanent injury. Be willing to compromise your differences (as distinct from your principles). Making up after a fight can bring you closer than you were before.
Get to know her family, and introduce her to your own:
Family background gives important clues to a person's character. A long-term relationship is a bond between families, not just the persons involved.
There comes that magic moment when you finally touch, when she fiercely grasps your hand of her own free will, when you start to give her the usual goodnight peck on the cheek and she turns her face to catch the kiss full on her lips (and, oh, how soft and yielding and warm they are!). This is a healing touch, an affirmative, giving touch. It is a pledge of yearned for commitment, a seed cast upon the waters of tomorrow.
Consider the process, the dynamic of how two people become one, a couple. The two of you gradually grow closer, begin to have deep feelings for one another, and to bond. Past a certain threshold, you cease to think of the woman as someone you have been dating; instead she becomes the other half of us. This is the point where commitment enters the picture, commitment to the relationship and to the happiness and well being of your partner. This is the critical moment when you decide to share your life together.
Cautions: Since you are somewhat inexperienced in the realm of man-woman relationships, you will blunder at first, learning by trial and error, making painful mistakes. You force the pace, letting your anxiety and impatience bruise the fragile trust between you. You let personal insecurities drive you to acts of jealousy. You try to change, or "remodel" her. Your stratagems to pull her closer, to take possession of her -- drive her away. Sometimes, it seems as if all your efforts are self-defeating...
Be prepared for the possibility that the relationship may never 'kindle'. If such were the case, consider it 'training' for your next one. Go on with your life. Meet new persons. Explore new relationships.
Finally, recognize that even a close relationship may go sour. Danger signs in a failing relationship include lack of respect between partners, constant bickering, and, most telling of all, power and domination dramas. If the two of you can no longer make each other laugh, give each other comfort by a touch, and share intimate moments, then there is little hope left. If your partner disparages and makes fun of you, there is not much remaining to hold on to. You can no longer evade hard choices, and the time has come to consider a graceful exit.
This article contributed by Leo Cooper at http://personal.riverusers.com/~thegrendel/cover.html.
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