Dear Friends and Subscribers,
Are you aware of the best way to find out what a woman is interested in? Just take a look around at her library of books and magazines in her house or apartment. Observe what subjects they focus on. This will tell you a lot about what her mind is focused on.
So, how is this going to help you in succeeding with women? By knowing what she enjoys talking about will give you an edge over other guys. You will know what her hot buttons are that makes her want to share the same subject with you.
And when you are sharing a conversation about a subject she is interested, she will in turn think that you are an interesting person. Also, it will create a bond between you when you discuss something that she is highly interested in.
So, let me give you a hint. When you are first dating or even on your first date, when you are at her place, be sure and look around at her books and magazines. This will be a dead giveaway about the things that she's really into.
Hopefully, her library will be about upbeat subjects and not something off the wall like devil worship, etc. Also, once you find out what subjects she is interested in, you will know what to give her as a gift in the form of a book or magazine. She will really admire you for getting her something that she really loves.
Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.
We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com
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What's one of the stupidest mistakes men make on first dates with single women? It's spending too much money on trying to impress them.
Some guys go to the trouble and expense of renting a limo, giving her a dozen red roses, going to the most expensive restaurant in town, or taking her to a resort, etc.
Please guys, save your hard-earned money and don't do these things to impress women on a first date. First dates are solely for the purpose of getting to know each other, share common interests, to see if you're compatible, and to see if there's any chemistry.
A lot of guys blow all this money on first dates that don't even work out. A lot of times you just don't hit it off and never see each other again.
While we are on the subject of first dates, let's talk about where to go on a first date. The most boring thing you can do is going out to eat and go see a movie. There at the restaurant you are trying to eat and think of something to talk about. Then you end up at a movie where you don't talk at all. Plus, you risk seeing a movie that's stupid and boring.
Let me suggest the best place to go for a first date. Go to a comedy club and I will tell you why:
This is the easiest way to entertain your date and make a good impression. Guess who's going to be entertaining your date and showing her a good time? The comedians!
They are going to make her laugh and you will be laughing together. And the good part about it is that she will look back on the date and feel that she really had a good time. The spirit of laughter is so good for the soul too. As a matter of fact, I think that all couples should go to a comedy club at least once a month.
P.S. - I would advise you not to give expensive gifts on a first date. Wait until you get to know each other better and there's a mutual attraction towards each other.
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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"Did you know you remind me of Al Gore?" When she asks how..."Because
you're goring my eyes out with your beauty."
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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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Okay boys, we have a problem. We outnumber the women, and most of the ones out there don't like to post. So we have to overcome those odds. How?
First off, if you're going to answer ads, remember one thing: responses, which offer no information, do not prompt most women to write back. If a woman gets a response that says nothing but, "Hi I'm interested write me," she will most likely toss it out; not only does such a response make you sound dull and uninteresting, but she's probably got a half-dozen other letters to answer. If your response doesn't communicate clearly who you are, what kind of guy you are, and why you're interested in her, why should she bother with you?
Keep in mind: women who post ads usually get a bunch of responses. To get the lady's attention, you're going to have to work hard to sound interesting.
Now, the fact is that I've heard from guys who've written and told me they had success answering ads. I heard from at least one guy who answered just one ad, and subsequently wound up getting engaged to the lady. But the fact of the matter is that your odds are an order of magnitude better if you actually post an ad.
Remember that most women don't post ads! So the most wonderful woman in the world may be out there scanning for ads looking for someone just like you, but because you never advertised, she will never find you. Most women don't post ads, and the girl of your dreams may be one of them. If you want her to find you, post an ad!
And when you do post an ad, try to keep the following in mind:
Follow all the advice I have given so far. It's all very important.
Don't sound desperate. This actually goes for both sexes, but especially for men. The old rule is very true: the harder you look for a girlfriend, the harder one will be to find. Be patient, and avoid sounding pathetic, excessively horny, or desperate. It will not help.
Be patient. One ad may net you no responses at all. If you're extremely lucky as a man, you may get as many as a dozen responses. More likely, you will get from one to three.
Post in more than one place. There are many venues out there on the Usenet and on the World Wide Web, which are free and easy to use. Use as many of them as possible! If you post your ad to the Usenet, be sure to post it in every group that might apply -- for straights, I recommend posting in alt.personals, alt.personals.ads, alt.personals.misc, and any regional news group nearby. And if you post an ad on the Web, be sure to place it in more than one service. Remember, the more coverage you have, the more likely is that your special someone will see it: you are, on average, ten times more likely to get good responses if you place an ad in ten places than if you place it in just one.
Be prepared to post your ad repeatedly. Do NOT expect one ad to get you lots of responses. Instead, prepare yourself for a bit of a wait. Post your ad in several places, and then wait see what happens. Wait a couple of weeks, and post it again. You may want to "tweak" or fine tune it each time you re-post it. If you aren't getting many responses, you may want to re-write it. But in any case, keep posting it until you get a response.
When you do get a response, don't stop posting your ad. Remember, one response means nothing. Until you've gotten to the point where you're seeing each other regularly, or at least writing to each other daily and talking on the phone a lot, you should keep posting your ad. Never invest too much in any one person until you have a good reason to believe that it's going somewhere.
Don't post your ad too often in the same place. This may seem a contradiction, but it's not. If people see ad after ad from you, you may look desperate or stupid, or at least annoying. Also, if you're using the Usenet, it can take as long as two weeks for a message to be completely distributed to all Usenet sites, so don't post much more often than that. Posting a new ad once every ten to fourteen days seems the most reasonable schedule.
Ultimately, you need to remember that the audience for personal ads is not static, and no one response to an ad means much. An enormous number of women read personal ads, but some only do it once in a while. Even those who read regularly might not notice your ad the first few times it appears. A woman may be interested in your ad but not be able to work up the courage to answer it -- but if she sees your it enough times, she may finally work up the courage to respond. If she does answer, she may lose interest. This is just like any other way of meeting people -- keep exploring your options and trying, patiently and persistently, until you hook the right lady.
TO SUM IT ALL UP: write a good, creative, intelligent, and thoughtful ad that's specific about what you do and don't want. Take all the space you need to get it right, but don't ramble; remember that too long is as bad as too short. Post it every couple of weeks in several different places, tweaking it now and then, and trying various experiments to see what works and doesn't. Keep posting ads until you are positive you've got a serious relationship going with someone. And most of all, just be patient, with yourself and others.
This article is reprinted by permission and is Copyright 1995 and 1996
by Dean Esmay.
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