Dear Friends and Subscribers,

This week I would like to focus on bad attitudes when going to bars and nightclubs to pick up single women. I know there are a lot of guys out there that hate going to bars and nightclubs. I leave home with a bad attitude and when they get to the bar or nightclub they stand around all night with a glum look on their face. They keep saying to themselves, "I hate this place and I wish I didn't have to be here, but this is the only place I can meet some women."

I will admit myself that bars and nightclubs are not the best places to go to find the woman of your dreams. But, you never know you just might get lucky and meet someone special. Don't give up hope and give yourself a chance.

Anyway, let's get right to the point of this article. It's very important that when you are at a bar or nightclub, to look like you are having a good time. If you look lonely, desperate, and depressed, women will pick up on this. It's like they have a sixth sense about picking up negative vibes.

So, wear a smile on your face and act happy, even if you have to fake it. And if you are standing near the dance floor, act like you are really getting into the music and ready to dance. Women pick up on this and may actually ask you to dance. It's happen to me many times.

And here's another tip that will really help you to attract women. If you are going to a bar or nightclub with a buddy, be sure and go with a guy that's a lot of fun to be with. Don't go with guys who have negative attitudes and always bitching and complaining about how women are such bitches, there's no women to meet, bars and nightclubs suck, and they stand around all night and take no action to meet women. Plus, they are boring, don't laugh, and act like they are at a funeral.

Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.

We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."

Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com

1) "Dating Tips of the Week" article for meeting, attracting, and seducing women.
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3) FREE book on how to select a dating service.
4) Pick-Up Line of the Week
5) Article from our "Dating Tips of the Week Archive" on how to score with women.
6) Enter our contest for a FREE book on succeeding with women.
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We do not intend for this report to be an abbreviated sex manual. Its purpose is to introduce you to some basic principles and philosophies of the sexual fulfillment of single women, and to encourage you to learn as much as you can about a single woman's sexual needs, wants, and desires.

We have compiled a list of tips about sex, but they are certainly not expected to fill your entire needs for sexual education. Entire books are devoted to the topic of female sexuality, there are sex manuals on the market, and magazines have sections devoted to educating men in the art of making love. In other words, there is a lot of material available and we strongly suggest that you obtain some. And we recommend seeing some X - rated movies. Though often poorly produced and acted, they are always quite educational in terms of technique, positions, and imagination.

But now to get your educational process started, we offer our tips:

TIP #1 - Imagination is the thing that separates a great lover from a boring lover. Always be changing the sexual activities, the order you do them in, the location, the positions, and the time - never let yourself become predictable in your sexual activity. Surprise her with your spontaneity.

TIP #2 - Making love to a single woman at different locations can be very exciting to her. This means places different from the bedroom - be it in the shower, the tub, the kitchen, in front of the fireplace, on top of a mountain, or at a friend's party in the bathroom. Making love somewhere different, especially if there is danger of being caught or a taboo involved, will excite and stimulate the woman. She will remember making love in the hot tub long after she has forgotten the 100 times you made love to her in bed.

TIP #3 - Educate yourself in the art of giving a body massage (May we suggest ordering our book "Romantic Massage" - Item #020 ($16.95) which will teach you how to seduce single women with your hands and how and where to squeeze, stroke, and touch her to drive her wild with sexual desire for you.) Have scented massage oil handy. The best way to elevate your performance above that of other men is to give a woman a body massage after you climax instead of rolling over and going to sleep. Hopefully, it will lead to round two.

TIP #4 - Sex is dirty. Keep it that way. Clean sex is boring sex.

TIP #5- Single women are much more open to exploring sexual taboos than men would think. Taboos would include oral sex, use of dildos, and masturbation. All of these activities may be thought of as being kinky but if every sexual activity is done with the underlying motive of pleasing the woman, then they will not be seen as being abusive or kinky. They will be seen as being exciting and sensual.

TIP #6 - Make love with the lights on so she can see things that she may never have seen before.

P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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Use this one with caution: "You know what would look good on you?" When she says, "What" you say, "Me."

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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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This week I would like to share with you an email I received from a single lady giving advice on how to meet and attract single women. It's always nice to hear a woman's perspective and views on how to meet her. Here's her email exactly as I received it:

Hi, I really enjoyed your introduction to your book (A Man's Guide to Women) - I suppose it was rather improper of me as I am a single woman and wanted to know the techniques by men - so I would know when they were interested in me - I am lucky as I am considered attractive - and unfortunately that one attribute generally dictates who does the choosing - as callous as it sounds.

In my experience, I have found that no man should "hang around" for more than five minutes - no matter how good looking - the best approach is a joke - a semi clean joke - memorize at least five - Go up to a girl and ask her if she thinks this joke is funny as a buddy said he could not stand it - Tell the joke - Hopefully she will giggle - then back off - tell her that she has given you encouragement.

Now you are "buddies"...don't ask her to dance - get out of her space as quickly as you came into it - she now thinks of you as a friend - and not a threat.

Now after a half an hour - travel back her way - If you have ANOTHER joke - do it now - if not - just casual conversation, such as, "I admire that perfume, may I inquire as to what it is? - my sister has been looking for a unique fragrance" - again, no sexual threats.

If she keeps talking - great - you are home free - if she is still a little abrupt - leave her alone - It seems to me that a man using this slower approach has better chances than an aggressive man - but then who am I to say. Good luck on your wonderful accomplishments - you are providing a wonderful service - Jayda......

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