This week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?"
Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time sitting on the couch watching TV. Well, a "Sports Potato" is a guy who spends all of his time watching sports on TV. He literally spends his whole weekend watching sports on TV.
So what does this have to do with succeeding with women? A whole lot and I'll explain why:
Let's face it guys, most single women are not obsessed with sports and they don't spend their weekends on the couch watching sports on TV.
When you first start dating she might not mind or rather I should say, put up with you wanting to spend all your time watching sports. But, eventually and sooner than you think, she's going to get pissed at you wanting to spend all your time watching sports instead of spending quality time with her.
This conflict of interest could even cause her to dump you and find someone else who can fulfill her needs that you are neglecting.
So, what's the solution if you refuse to change your habits? Try to find a woman who is just as obsessed with sports as you are? (Good luck on this one).
Or, the smart thing to do is to cut back on watching sports and spend more time taking her places and spending quality time with her. I'm not suggesting that you give up your interest in sports. Just balance your time to include her. That's all.
There's another drawback for men when they are watching sports on TV that turns women off. Men don't want to be bothered when they are watching sports and if a woman tries to talk to them, they don't listen very well or not at all. And this upsets women when you ignore them and don't listen to them.
What would be ideal is to be dating a woman who is understanding and accepts the fact that some men are obsessed with sports. After all it's no different in women being obsessed with watching soap operas. If you try to talk to them while they are trying to watch their soap opera, they won't be listening to you while you're trying to talk to them and they really don't want to be bothered.
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Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.
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Money is not an efficient seducer. Save yours for the Fox you marry. Men spend mind-boggling amounts of money trying to get Foxes into bed. It's stupid. The $5,000-50,000 or more each year many men spend on Foxes and non-Elites, if invested in the stock market, would make them millionaires and help the United States economy in the process. Even when spending works, you have to keep coming up with cash to keep the Gold-digging Fox happy. If you can afford this expense, go for it, but for most men there are better ways. I have found that golddiggers are not worth the expense.
Spending money on a Gold-digging Fox is going to deplete your resources. You will also waste time that could have been better spent working and where your money could have been multiplying instead of disappearing. When you do not spend your money, it retains its power, and you'll have a lot more of it to use. If you have a spare $1,000 and use it to take a Fox on a weekend getaway, that money is gone assoon as the vacation is over. The same $1,000 stashed away can be used to attract Foxes with the mere hope that you will spend it on them. This is what Foxes do with sex; do it with money and you will reap similar benefits. Walk into any metropolitan coffeehouse if you think money is the only way to seduce a Fox. In every coffeehouse I have ever been to, there are starving-artist types who have Foxes all over them.
One of the most successful players I ever met (in a coffeehouse, of course) worked in an auction house and made less than $400.00 a week. His job gave him access (lots of Foxes go to auctions), and his knowledge of antiques and other collectibles, plus his general outgoing nature and awareness of what Foxes like to do and discuss, made him more a more powerful Foxhunter than even most millionaires.
Money is a lifeblood, which should not be parted with easily. I don't mind paying for a dinner here and there, because I'm just as quick to treat my friends occasionally as I would a Fox, but I avoid expensive dates. Dating creates an extra hurdle a man must clear before he can get a Fox into bed. If you could find out on or even before a first date if sex is going to occur, you will be much better off financially. It is also wiser to save your money for a Fox you know is going to be with you than to spend money on those who have not even shown a meaningful interest in you and may just be using you.
Contrary to popular belief, dating does not require much money. Many excellent dates cost little or no money, although you usually will have to be more creative. For example, you could get a wonderful evening with a Fox for less than $35.00 just by purchasing some groceries and a bottle of wine, and cooking dinner. You get an evening alone, and the bedroom isn't exactly a long trip. A setting like this is much more intimate than an expensive restaurant, a place better suited to taking a Fox after you have slept with her. A date like the one mentioned above is good because even though it is intimate, the Fox can still put up walls if she wants, or break them down just as easily if that is what she wants. There is something about taking a man home with her or going to his place that a Fox is going to become hesitant about. If you are already there, this barrier does not exist. Seduction is difficult enough without adding extra roadblocks.
This article listed with permission from Outfoxing the Foxes at:
www.cybersheet.com/fox/index.html
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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Warning! Only use this one with a girl you already know and can
appreciate crude humor: "Do you know you remind me of the guy who is
running for President?" When she asks how you say: "Because, by
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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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Let's say you do find a hot & sexy single girl you want to meet who wants to meet you too. You start up a conversation. Since we've all been conditioned to start acting in a way that will create the best impression, especially when we first meet people, putting on a "mask" or facade is virtually unavoidable.
Especially in that "first-meeting" situation, it's hard for most of us to be ourselves. We all want to be liked, so we try to act like what we guess that other person will consider both acceptable and appealing. We're not sure, but at least if she rejects my mask, so the logic goes, she still hasn't rejected me. In other words, the mask is also a defense.
Yet, what if the masks may be perfect for each other, while the people behind them are not truly compatible at all? A serious problem arises if you fall in love with each other's masks because eventually, both he and she will come out from behind their masks and slip back into being the person they really are! Then, the relationship is over.
And here is another problem that wearing masks cause: Suppose you don't like the mask that the other person is wearing. With a mask being used as a defense, you never really get to know the real person underneath, when all the while the real person underneath might be very compatible with you. In other words, masks get in the way!
Guessing about what people are really like and what they would like to see in you takes a lot of energy. Wearing masks causes tension. Wearing masks requires a lot of effort and wastes a lot of time keeping up the front. When you are genuine and authentic, life gets much easier and is certainly much more fun.
So, for this week's tips I am strongly urging you to be yourself when
meeting single women. Don't try to be someone you are not. You're
true personality is going to come out in the end and it's best that
she is exposed to the true you in the beginning so there will not be
any surprises later on in the relationship.
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