This is the man that has fixed opinions about himself and makes up excuses such as, "I'm not very lucky with women" or "I just don't stand a chance of meeting a woman" or "There aren't any good places where I can meet a good woman." These are just defensive statements to avoid placing the blame where it really belongs and that's on yourself. You just haven't tried hard enough to meet a woman. That's where the real problem lies.

Make it a point to block these beliefs completely out of your mind because they will hinder you from seeking out women using your own initiative.

Nothing could be farther from the truth. Waiting around for something to happen will most likely accomplish nothing. This will produce little action, if any at all. I just can't tell you how many nights I've wasted at nightclubs just waiting for something to happen, that is until I wised up. If you wait for a woman to approach you and strike up a conversation, sometimes you will be waiting all night. You have got to take the initiative and create your own action; it's not going to come to you out of the clear blue sky.

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Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.

We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."

Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com

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4) Pick-Up Line of the Week
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6) Enter our contest for a FREE book on succeeding with women.
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When you respond to a single woman's voice personal ad and you get no response, do you ever wonder what went wrong? You feel like you made a good recording on her voice mailbox and you never hear back from her. You feel a little frustrated and rejected.

To help you figure out what went wrong, here are the Top 10 reasons she did not try to get in touch with you after hearing your message in her voice mail box assigned by the personals publication:

1. Your message contained sexual overtones. This is a sure-fire way to scare women off.

2. The tone of your voice was too soft when replying. The system could not pick up your voice and cut you off. This caused your message to not be recorded, thus, she can not respond to you if there is no message.

3. Your voice turned her off. I'm sure you can relate to this. I'm sure you've heard women's voices that get on your nerves.

4. Your message was way too long. You really dragged it out to the point where it became monotonous and boring.

5. There was a long pause while making your message and the system thought you were through and cut you off.

6. You used too much slang in your message such as "You know," "You know what I mean," etc.

7. You stuttered and mumbled too much when making your message. This is a big turn-off!

8. Your message was too short and only contained one or two sentences such as "Hi my name is Don. Let's get together sometime and have some fun. Call me at 484-2424."

9. If you used your cellular phone to make your message, it may have faded out on you and the system did not pick up your message.

10. In your message, all you did was brag about yourself and your material possessions. In other words you came across as stuck on yourself. This is a big no no!

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"If I gave you a couple of beautiful red roses, would you return the favor and give me two-lips?"

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There are many reasons for a single woman to use personal ads to meet men for friendship, love, and romance. Here are the main reasons:

1. It may be that she can't meet guys any other way. But it may also be that she's really gorgeous and wants a chance to meet a guy who'll get to know her before finding out what she looks like.

2. It may be that she's just shy.

3. It may be that she has a busy career and has no other good way of meeting people.

4. It may be that she's got kids and doesn't have many chances to get out.

5. It may be that she is highly intelligent and has a hard time finding intelligent men in her everyday life.

6. It may be that she's stuck in the middle of nowhere with few men around.

7. Maybe she's just trying this for the fun of it. Or maybe she just likes computers.

There are many good reasons to use personal ads. There's nothing at all weird about a single woman doing something like this.

This article is reprinted by permission and is Copyright 1995 and 1996 by Dean Esmay.

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I used the personal ads to meet and seduce hot & sexy beautiful single women from all over the United States. You can too...and to help you do this we are carrying the manual called, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write and Respond to Personal Ads." For more information on this girl-getting manual please Visit: http://www.getgirls.com/personal.htm

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P.S - I promise that I will never sell or share your e-mail address with anyone!

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