"Dating Tips of Week" May 5, 2014 featuring the latest dating tips for men on how to get more dates, improve your relationships and sex life, experience more love, intimacy, romance and surefire techniques, strategies, and methods on how to successfully score with hot & sexy single women.

Don't Dry Up

This is a critical point in your pick-up attempt. Many men fail right here. You have managed to gain the attention of this girl and introduce yourself. But, you stand there in front of this total stranger, and you just can't think of anything suitable to say. She is looking at you, expectantly: "Come on; you stopped me, you had something to tell me. What is it?" Most men think, "Oh, sure. I'll be able to think of something. I can say just about anything, and the conversation will just roll along. " But it doesn't work like that. When the girl is right there, staring you in the face, you don't think very well.

Finding something to say that doesn't sound foolish is not easy. Probably the girl is self-conscious too, so she won't be able to help you. Sometimes the girl will help you out, but of course you can't depend on that.

So, the man may make a weak attempt at conversation, make a frantic, premature attempt for a date, and be rejected. It will probably be a long time before he will try a pick-up again. He would be convinced that he just couldn't handle it.

In his analysis of what went wrong, he may blame his failure on his opening lines, or his appearance. He might think that these things turned the girl off, so that she wouldn't join in and help with conversation. This would be a mistake. Some difficulty and awkwardness at the opening line stage are to be expected. What he really lacked was the ability to carry the conversation afterward (in the SECOND PHASE). If he had been able to do this, the difficulties of the FIRST PHASE would have been left behind.

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If you know you are not as quick witted as some people are, don't worry, you don't have to be. Being a quick wit who thinks of the right thing to say immediately is only one way to succeed. There is another way: prepare your material. The idea is not to try to "wing" it. There are plenty of things for you to say, but don't depend on being able to think of them there on the spot. You should prepare in advance what to say. You should prepare a format, a sequence of planned conversation moves.

Also, you should have a mental list of conversation topics that you can draw from, along with some interesting or exciting activities you may want to invite her to share with you. These things should all be ready and waiting in the wings.

Quite often a man's lack of confidence in his ability to pick-up a girl is centered around this fear that he won't be able to carry the conversation with her. If this troubles you, just think of how much more confidence you will have, when you first approach her, if you know you can continue holding her interest for an hour or so.